Thank goodness for online dating, because single men still have no idea where to find all the single women in real life. Sure, one could go to a bar or club and meet women, but it’s not as easy as it sounds. In bars, women tend to travel in packs, the music is often too loud to talk, and let’s face it we have all had bad experiences with some potential bunny boiler that we picked up while drunk at a club.
So if we want to try to meet women in person, where do we look? Common interests are a great way to start. If a guy has any hobbies or interests, he should find ways to meet other people with similar interests. Search the internet for meet-up groups in the local area for those interests or hobbies. For example, if a guy likes to cook, he could take a cooking class, either at a local cooking school, community college or ongoing adult education program. The ongoing adult education program is often very inexpensive and usually has a wide variety of offerings in a lot of different subject. Try photography, computer classes, an exercise class, or line dancing. Try to take something you actually have some interest in, or it could be obvious that trolling for women is the main objective. Women can pick up on this faster than any man could imagine – it’s like they have radar. Try to do a little research before the class starts and know something about the subject matter – women respond well to interesting conversation.
Many cities have interesting classes or singles get-togethers at museums. Get involved with a local community theater. They often need volunteers willing to do the backstage stuff like painting, building sets or manning the hospitality counter during intermission much more than they need actors, so being onstage isn’t a requirement. Most of the other guys there are probably gay, so this may be a great place to meet single women.
