We’re all answering enough questions during the day about the most mundane aspects of our lives, the last thing anyone of us want to do is answer more, especially those pointed one’s burrowing deep into our business puked by jealous hubbies or girlfriends trying to find out where we are 24/7! Frequently Asked Questions should be on websites, not in our lives. If you even think you want to keep a dating situation going with your man or have that woman want to see you again, best leave your suspicions and the sneaky way you ask then, to yourself!
We all have our insecurities but we look nothing but desperate interrogating our lover of their whereabouts, blowing-up a new date’s cell phone, couching inquires as seemingly simply conversations when even the a five year-old would realize we are fishing with a not-so-shiny lure for answers. If you want to know something about your partner so bad you have to resolve to know this one truth for certain…even if you ask them where they have been and they have no completely ascertained that you are pumping them for information it is just very possible they are lying to you anyway. And if they determine-as they will after not so long-you are asking to answer your own insecurities you can be certain that asking has made you seem all that less attractive to them.
If our boyfriend/girlfriends, lover, fuck-buddy, spouse wants to cheat-and let’s face it the reasons we ask the questions we do is because, in the end, we need to know if they are being faithful or not-want to cheat, they will. No amount of us worrying will stop that fact while our asking about it, in our round-about way, when they are not cheating, might actually drive them to it.
Dating never comes from deceit, insecurity or really any of the all-too-often negatives that do sometimes come from dating. Best leave those FAQ’s unasked.