Just when we think we have a handle on what is sexy, and what makes us attracted to one person rather than another, bang, we are hit right between the eyes with someone that we never would have imagined that we would be into at all. That is the fun and frolic of Sex and pheromones, because they both have a mind, an agenda, and a charm all of their own.
Have you ever started to date one of the most attractive people that you have ever laid eyes on, but for some reason after a few dates your enthusiasm starts to wane and you can’t figure out why. You can see that they are ridiculously attractive, you can tell through conversation that they are highly intelligent, and it is obvious that they are a kind hearted and nice person. But you don’t care. But you begin to care about figuring out why you don’t care. But you can’t. Because you just don’t. You can wait forever with this person and it is just not coming. Ever. In this case, your feisty pheromones are not with you, and whenever they are not with you, unfortunately they are against you. Sorry.
Then there are other times when you go out with someone that you find to be average looking at best, and you find that you are wildly attracted to them. You can’t stop thinking about them, you can’t get enough of them sexually or romantically. Every time they come near you, your breath catches and your heart races as though it will beat our of your chest. Say hello to your little pheromones, because baby are they ever with you on this one.
Wouldn’t it be great if you could figure out what makes your pheromones work? Well let that go, because you can’t and it doesn’t matter how hard you may try, you never will. What you can do though, is just enjoy them.