We all know about personals, the brief dating ad come-ons that are written to give only a few hints about the writer so the reader will want to find out more. From newspapers to online the actual personal hasn’t changed that much, and you’d have thought through years of conditioning daters would have learned then how to use them, but still there are people playing hard-to-get in online personals, being coy, firing-up their sassiness when we all know, or should pretty much sense, that language of a less then definite nature, or words that require the inflection of the speakers voice to truly make a sardonic or sexy point, will not come across if they are just read.
We’re all answering enough questions during the day about the most mundane aspects of our lives, the last thing anyone of us want to do is answer more, especially those pointed one’s burrowing deep into our business puked by jealous hubbies or girlfriends trying to find out where we are 24/7! Frequently Asked Questions should be on websites, not in our lives. If you even think you want to keep a dating situation going with your man or have that woman want to see you again, best leave your suspicions and the sneaky way you ask then, to yourself! Continue reading →