If you’re into causal sex but don’t know where to look for people who are also into it, than you’ve probably questioned how you would get a stranger in bed with you. Believe it or not, but it may actually sound harder than it really is. As long as you have the proper amount of time, tools and preparation for your night out, you’re sexual fantasy of sleeping with a stranger can become reality.
You’re going to want to start searching for the right sex partner in your area. Nowadays, there is no reason to ever have to leave your home in order to find a random chick to have sex with you. Think abut all the online dating ads you see whenever you’re surfing the internet. These sites feed anyone’s sexual preference and you’re guaranteed to be satisfied.
As much as we’d all love to message online personals “Let’s fuck,” it’s not reality. If you want to get a stranger to agree to have sex with you, you’re going to need a bit of grace about you. Start a conversation in a chat-room, e-mail or anywhere else that you feel is safe to talk but doesn’t involve face-to-face contact. Before you do anything you must make sure she’s on the same sexual page as you.
Now, you’ve successfully made it to the setup of your rendezvous. You’re on your way to getting a piece. You’ve decided that you want to get hot, sweaty and have an orgasm with this girl for at least 2 hours. But one of the most important things for this to happen is to actually get her to show up. Regardless how great she seems you should always tell one friend where you’re going to be, have your cell fully charged and meet in a public place. If you go straight to her place you’re putting yourself in a dangerous situation.
Before you go to meet this hot babe make sure you’re presentable and bring protection. Plan an escape route just in case anything goes wrong. Never give too much information about yourself and focus on what you came for. A casual fuck should never be let into you life, this is why it’s called CASUAL. Remember, never let your guard down but enjoy yourself and leave with an experience to tell your buddies.
Jessica, the woman I met recently and have started dating gave me a call and asked me if I wanted to go to the beach. I told her I love the beach, but that I can’t swim too well. She said she grew up dating a lifeguard, so he taught her all the strokes and mouth-to-mouth techniques if anything were to go wrong while we were swimming. I told her that when she talks about stroking and mouth-to-mouthing me, I get very tight trousers. We arrange to meet in the early afternoon at one of her favorite spots.
I get there a little late, and as I’m walking down the beach looking for Jessica, I think I see her. But there’s a dude standing by her talking to her, so I’m not sure if it’s her. As I get closer, I see that it is her. When I approach and put my towel down, the dude takes off. I ask her who that was, and she said just some yahoo asking her out on a date. I said that sort of thing takes balls, and she replied that it gets annoying, once she makes it clear that she’s not interested, but he still tries to be charming and get a date or her number.
Then she springs up and runs into the water. I run up to the shoreline and stop. She tells me to come in, but I’m a little apprehensive. She’s wearing this sexy black shirt instead of a bathing suit, and turns and gives me the look that tells me nothing bad will happen when I go out there with her. So I walk out. I catch up to her, and we spend a half an hour in each other’s arms, kissing and feeling each others bodies in the warm California surf. A beautiful date.
I was out with a beautiful woman I met using the personals site we both use. It was just our first date, so it’s not like we are monogamous or married or anything. However, something happened on our date that sort of made me feel bad, even though when I look at it logically, there’s really no reason for me to feel bad.
So we meet at a coffee house for our first date, and we’re just chatting. Basic getting-to-know-you stuff. It’s going well for a first date – friendly and easy. At one point it even became a little flirty when she accidentally got bumped into me. Then, as we’re sitting at our table, I can see her start to look over my shoulder at something behind me. Then again. Then again, but this time longer, and she smiles. I turn around, and I see a dude sitting by himself smiling and flirting with her. It totally made me lose my temper and I left.
Now, like I said, it was just a first date, but I still thought it was rude. Then I remembered a time when I was out with a woman on a ski trip. We had been going out for a while, though we weren’t monogamous. We met this woman skiing along, who spent the next hour tagging along wherever we went and flirting with me. And, I’m sorry to say, I flirted back. My date was upset too.
I tried to rationalize it to my date back then, but now I realize I was rude too.
For everyone out there – when you’re on a date – just flirt with the one you’re with. Otherwise feelings will be hurt!