So, you are a hot unattached person looking to conduct a singles search on the wacky world wide web. If you have never done such a thing before, it can seem daunting at first, much like any other new endeavor. You will likely be nervous and more than a bit cautious about what you put out there about yourself. And this is a good thing. Too many people dive into these things with a too cocky or naive attitude. Some would say stupid. When you join any of these sites, your face and words are now out there in the ether for everyone to see for years to come. You may be anxious, but it pays to do a little homework before you cause some permanent harm to your reputation. And after you devote a decent amount of time to yourself, you need to devote an equal amount of time to investigating anyone that you are interested in meeting.
After all the online dating and weeding through profile after profile, he’s finally found someone he really likes quite a bit. They had their first coffee date, and it want great. The conversation was interesting and fun and now it’s time for a real first date. The meal was great, but she was better – she was funny and interesting, the conversation flowed easily, the flirting was hot and heavy. At the end of the night, he walks her to her car and he goes in for the kiss. She kisses back and the making out begins in earnest. They both want more, but something holds her back.
We all know about personals, the brief dating ad come-ons that are written to give only a few hints about the writer so the reader will want to find out more. From newspapers to online the actual personal hasn’t changed that much, and you’d have thought through years of conditioning daters would have learned then how to use them, but still there are people playing hard-to-get in online personals, being coy, firing-up their sassiness when we all know, or should pretty much sense, that language of a less then definite nature, or words that require the inflection of the speakers voice to truly make a sardonic or sexy point, will not come across if they are just read.
Because they are for many single people the opening salvo to online dating or our first real entrée for finding a social life, obsession with personals, or at very least an overly keen interest in them is where madness can start. For writers we can become obsessed with getting every single word correct, fret over where to post the personal and then when we do check them constantly-to not do much more then re-read what we wrote-and basically pen more and more personals and tweak, re-post and fret some more.
How we find, keep in touch with, maintain and even break-off friendships that have changed so much in the past decade of the net. More than ever before we are all courting casual acquaintances, increasing the scope of our social world and meeting people from all over.
Some of these people we chat with nightly, keeping-up with their lives as they do with ours; in reality they become our modern day pen pal. In others we built a whole new intimacy, one that has only the bounds of the world-wide-web to keep it and we enjoy mutual chatting that leads to just as mutual masturbation. And as we seem to be growing ever more adept at, we also see the mixing of friends as lovers strictly online because we know we will never meet these pen pals. Continue reading →
Really, we can use a person and they us in a good way…in all ways. Xxx dating is all about finding a partner who we only just really want to fuck and they us. And while not the way everyone should and could date, Xxx fucking works for so much of the population there are parties and online social portals and dating sites devoted to it. No-one who is Xxx dating feels used, and if they do, they shouldn’t be Xxx dating in the first place.
At any given time anyone of us can enter the singles scene and exit pretty successful, no matter what we are wearing, how bad our hair looks or even if we haven’t taken a shower in a day.
Because of online dating we pretty much look good even when we aren’t looking good, feel like shit, want to just crawl up into a ball and go to sleep. We can act a good game, present a fun flirty chat, push our profile pics even when we know we don’t look anything like those pics at the moment. Continue reading →
Just when we think we have a handle on what is sexy, and what makes us attracted to one person rather than another, bang, we are hit right between the eyes with someone that we never would have imagined that we would be into at all. That is the fun and frolic of Sex and pheromones, because they both have a mind, an agenda, and a charm all of their own. Continue reading →
If you’re into causal sex but don’t know where to look for people who are also into it, than you’ve probably questioned how you would get a stranger in bed with you. Believe it or not, but it may actually sound harder than it really is. As long as you have the proper amount of time, tools and preparation for your night out, you’re sexual fantasy of sleeping with a stranger can become reality.
You’re going to want to start searching for the right sex partner in your area. Nowadays, there is no reason to ever have to leave your home in order to find a random chick to have sex with you. Think abut all the online dating ads you see whenever you’re surfing the internet. These sites feed anyone’s sexual preference and you’re guaranteed to be satisfied.
As much as we’d all love to message online personals “Let’s fuck,” it’s not reality. If you want to get a stranger to agree to have sex with you, you’re going to need a bit of grace about you. Start a conversation in a chat-room, e-mail or anywhere else that you feel is safe to talk but doesn’t involve face-to-face contact. Before you do anything you must make sure she’s on the same sexual page as you.
Now, you’ve successfully made it to the setup of your rendezvous. You’re on your way to getting a piece. You’ve decided that you want to get hot, sweaty and have an orgasm with this girl for at least 2 hours. But one of the most important things for this to happen is to actually get her to show up. Regardless how great she seems you should always tell one friend where you’re going to be, have your cell fully charged and meet in a public place. If you go straight to her place you’re putting yourself in a dangerous situation.
Before you go to meet this hot babe make sure you’re presentable and bring protection. Plan an escape route just in case anything goes wrong. Never give too much information about yourself and focus on what you came for. A casual fuck should never be let into you life, this is why it’s called CASUAL. Remember, never let your guard down but enjoy yourself and leave with an experience to tell your buddies.